Good girl no de Pay

Kalu Nkeiruka
1 min readFeb 15, 2024
A beautiful African woman

‘Good girl no de pay’ is probably the only thing I can remember from that Bobrisky trend that went on on TikTok for months. While it was a trend that glorified women living flamboyant lifestyle sponsored by men, really, does being a good girl ever pay?

I remembered when I used to think that because I was good to others, it automatically meant they would be good to me too. It was crazy 😆. I saw shege.

In fact, I am still seeing shege. People (especially men) are self-centered, misogynistic and self-absorbed. You can’t even see a breath of fresh air 😢…

At this point, it is easier for a camel to pass a needle’s eye than seeing an emotional available man.

This people deserve crazy people that will show them equal pepper and since they are in greater percentage, what odds do you have, ehn — good girl?

None. Just keep being you and mind your business.

Drink water. Glow. Take more vitamins and remember, mind your business.

Good girl no de pay.

Just be you.

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